# A method to discover your why
#permanentnote
## Source
- [[Simon Sinek TED interview 2021]]
## Keywords (topics and howto)
- [[topic - live a great life]]
- [[how to be a better self]]
- [[how to be a better father]]
## Relevant notes
## Notes
- Your why is the thing you give to the world.
To discover your why you need a friend. Ask them:
- why are we friends?
- they will not know how to answer
- what is it about me that I know you'll be there no matter what?
- Play devil's advocate until they start describing themselves, they will articulate the value you have in their life, and you will have an emotional response.