#permanentnote
# Focus on what to do, not what not to do
## Source
- Not sure
- [[my brain]]
## Keywords (topics and howto)
- [[topic - leading and managing]]
- [[topic - negotiation and sales]]
- [[how to be a better leader]]
- [[how to be a better negotiator]]
## Notes
- Often we define what we do not want. This happens when we do not know what we want.
- *What I want is ...* is more powerful and help the other side